There’s strength in weakness

You just have to own it

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Confidence doesn’t mean you have no weaknesses or insecurities. It’s about being open about your insecurities and not letting them get in the way of achieving your goals and living your best life. People often makes big generalisations like “being emotional is a weakness” or “weak people aren’t successful”. But that’s not true.

Here’s how to tap into your weaknesses and become a stronger and more confident version of yourself:

Own your weakness

Most of us get defensive when our weaknesses are exposed. We tend to think people won’t respect us when we show signs of weakness. But we’re missing the big picture.

The thing is, when we admit a weakness, we gain strength because we now own it. No one can use it against us… unless we allow them to.

Owning your weakness helps you control the outcome, and that makes you feel more secure and confident in life.

Speak about your weaknesses

People are inspired by your actions, but they connect with you through your vulnerabilities. Vulnerability is when you open up about your emotions and share deep personal experiences about the real you. This helps people trust and connect with you because they can relate to your story. You’re never the only one experiencing something. You are never alone.

When people relate to your story, you can form powerful bonds. You also come across as truthful and authentic. Strong connections with other people will make you happier and more confident, so don’t be afraid to talk about how you really feel.

Act despite your weaknesses

Courage is feeling afraid but doing it anyway. Showing imperfections is only weak when those faults stop us from taking action. If you keep taking steps, you’ll build your confidence muscles. For example, feeling afraid of speaking in public, but raising your hand up in class regardless. Or, not knowing how to do something 100% but putting yourself forward for the opportunity anyways.

When you are open and accepting of your weaknesses, you can act on them and find ways to turn them into strengths. So don’t be quick to think being weak or emotional is a setback. When you own, speak about, and act on your weaknesses, it helps build your strength and makes you feel confident.

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I do have a little confidence in me but whenever I get on stage I get stagefright. My hands get sweaty and it feels like I'm in a cage,a cage of fear,of....of weaknesses. It feels like everybody's just laughing at me. It makes me want to scream,shout and just run away. Everything I say comes out faster than it should come out.

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May 29, 2022, 6:08 a.m.

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March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Let Him go if he love and respect you he won't go to your friends..

Nokwanda

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Wat I'm trying to say is LET HIM GO YOU WERE THE ONE WHO CHEATED.

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Tshedza

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Me too

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March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

um...about confidence... I do have confidence. but sometimes I feel it isn't enough due to how *some* people treat me...its like this negative treatment

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello maidi We are sorry to hear that. You must always know that you are beautiful and also that people are different. Write notes and put them on the wall or mirror. Write things like "I am beautiful", "I have beautiful eyes".Anything that you want good that you want to remind yourself. We hope this helps you Springster. Please let us know if this helps you to boost your confidence.We love you Springster.

Im weak so young girls think that I'm stupid even my classmates Sometimes I feel like I could leave school please can I get help

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Hello girls😍 thank you very much I really needed to hear this because I am one of those shy girls

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Thanks tshidi

Wise words right there.

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Thanks

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Happy

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That what friends are 4.......Okkk I mean that's what family is 4 right???

Tshedza

Correct

Mm

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Very true.. we must all understand that we can not live in fear or in that state were we often ask " what will people say" . It's your life, your weakness , your strengths, your struggles , your victory. Own up to it for there is No one who will.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Tshedza

You are right ✔️✔️

Dont let weaknesses control your life,,but let your strenght control your weaknesses...

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

Yes true. But i also have that weaknesses that take control over me and i want to find way to over come it.

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.