What should I do?
This week on #AskSpringster we help a Springster who had a major fight with their bestie.
Mpho is 15 years old and has recently lost her best friend after they had a fight. She feels lost and all alone. She cannot concentrate at school anymore because she misses her friend. Mpho doesn’t know how to deal with this fight.
We asked a few Springsters for their advice, and this is what they had to say.
Solution:
Hi Mpho, Fighting with someone close to you can be an experience that is hard to deal with. Don’t worry it’s totally and completely OK to not be OK. Figure out how you would like to go forward. Is your relationship fixable or do you think that it is better for you to move on without her?
Remember, friends can have a positive or negative effect on you and your life - so stick with the people who support and love you. It is really important to speak to someone you trust about these feelings as they will be able to help you talk things through, and get the support you may need.
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Vuvu
I was told to apologize when you are wrong. But some friends have pride They won't even admit that they were wrong they'll always put a blame on you I always tell myself that i will not apologize when i didn't do anything wrong for the sake of peace If our friendship ends then let it be i won't babysit someone's ego
Aug. 17, 2022, 4:17 p.m.
Mamajozi
Hey
Aug. 17, 2022, 3:08 a.m.
Mashangase
Hey
Aug. 16, 2022, 3:08 a.m.
Barbielicious
I always fight with my bestie so what I must do ❤️😩🥺
Aug. 14, 2022, 7:21 p.m.
Thingo
Heyy everyone my name is Thingo❤😻I'm 15 yrs old and I'm new here
Aug. 14, 2022, 3:38 p.m.
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Barbielicious
Ur welcome😩❤️
Katie
Can you please send me your number phone, this is my number 0617358274
Aug. 14, 2022, 12:37 p.m.
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Anathi
Hey Katie can i take your number i want someone to chat with please 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Entle
Hi it's the Zulu gal Entle I am new 😀
Aug. 13, 2022, 11:22 p.m.
Awethu
New freinds❤😁❤😁❤ everybody's tens plz
Aug. 13, 2022, 5:48 p.m.
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Gladys
0634417246
Juliet
Hey am 15 and I need a new friend...🥰🥺👉👈
Aug. 13, 2022, 1:07 p.m.
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ItsSammy
@Juliet we can be friends
Amierh
0790583937
Amierh
We can be friends 0790583937
2010
Hi I'm new here.... So wats going on
Aug. 9, 2022, 9:22 p.m.
Thembi
You can apologize but if your friend doesn't want your apology give him or her some space to forgive you
Aug. 9, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Inam
Hey guys I'm new here can you please add me to the Moya Group,here is my number 071 817 4443
Aug. 8, 2022, 9:56 p.m.
Asanda
Hey guys I have a friend who loves me but when I become successful she becomes jealous what do I do😭😭😭
Aug. 8, 2022, 12:23 p.m.
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Thingo
I think that u must ask her that why does she seems like she is jealous of u or maybe ask her that why does she seems unhappy when u become successful just ask her that and look at her reaction when u ask her
Asanda
Hey guys I'm new here can you plz add me to the Moya group 0717243284
Aug. 8, 2022, 12:20 p.m.
Nozipho
Last week I have a fight with my ex and my friend we were fighting for my ex what I should do 😕
Aug. 7, 2022, 5:10 p.m.
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Asanda
If you are the cause of the fight just try to apologize maybe he or she Will forgive you
aishamagade
It happened to me and I let go of my pride and said sorry
July 31, 2022, 6:32 p.m.
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Nozipho
Good girl
Thwala
Hello my name is Ntando I am this guys
July 30, 2022, 10:53 a.m.
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Cindy
0673571358 add me
Gladys
0634417246 add
Esona
Hi my name is Esona I had a fight with my boyfriend last weekend and also am pregnant he unloved his family in our relationship so what must I do
July 27, 2022, 12:06 a.m.
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aishamagade
Hi Esona which school r you from
Kgaugelo
Tell hem that you are pregnant . Because if you don't tell hem now he is going to think that the baby you are carrying is not his baby.😔😔😔😔
Reatlegile
Tell him that you are pregnant
Nozipho
How old are you
Simo
Me too I'm Esona do this tell your boyfriend that he can't see the baby only do that🥺🥺please
Lindelwa_Leerh
Okay .I'm 12 years old😊.Can you give me your number?♡♡♡♡👭
July 25, 2022, 2:44 a.m.
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Lindelwa_Leerh
To:Buhle♡♡♡
Amierh
0790583937-my name is Amierh
Lindelwa_Leerh
Thnx oky how old I you?
Retha
0677685191Rethabile
Lindelwa_Leerh
How old are you?
Ori34
0722845811 name Bridget Bianca
Nozipho
0799874398=I'm Nozipho ♡♡♡
Inam
0718174443=Inam
Gladys
0634417246 Gladys❤️♥️🦋🐼
Nomhle
Hi guyz I'm Nomhle and I'm new here I had a fight with my friend last week soh I am actually asking for an advice🤞😔😔
July 24, 2022, 9:30 a.m.
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Buhle_mabontle
Sorry girl. Why don't you ask fpr forgiveness
Buhle_mabontle
Hey. My name is Buhle. I am new here. But i think you should be able to be humble and apologise. Even though you are not the person who started the fight,you should alway be able to be humble and apologise. If she/he is willing to fight,walk away. Thank you❤
July 23, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
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Lindelwa_Leerh
Hey Buhle,How are you and how old are your?
Lindelwa_Leerh
Hey Buhle,How old are your?
Reatlegile
How old are you?
Lindelwa_Leerh
Ohh sorry!😏My keyboard has a problems.thnx☺♡
Lindelwa_Leerh
And your Reatlegile how old I you?
Lindelwa_Leerh
*And you
Buhle_mabontle
Hey guys❤. I am 10 years old. How about you?😚❤
Lindelwa_Leerh
Okay.I'm 12 years old😊.Can you give me your number?♡👭
Amierh
I'm 15 year's Here's my number-0790583937
Lindelwa_Leerh
Amierh sorry don't send me a message again this is my mother's phone💗😊.
Ori34
0722845811
Ntoyonke
Hi buhle how are you 🥰 how old are you
Asanda
😍😍😍💖💖💖true can we be friends you are a good influence to me😎😎
Tman
SHARING NUMBERS
July 23, 2022, 6:34 a.m.
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Asanda
😂😂🤣🤣lol
Nothawelanga
Hi guys I am new here I had a friend we always fighting and I do not want to please give me advice
July 19, 2022, 3:57 p.m.
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lebogang
moya number
Pre4t7t6y
0680887218
Buhle_mabontle
Sorry girl. How old are you are what is your name
Tishetsho
Maybe you can try and go to her say sorry 😞 because you can't go on without her. I know how it feels to lose Orr fight with someone close to you
July 18, 2022, 1:29 p.m.
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lebogang
moya number
lebogang
0795876285 ADD PLSS
July 18, 2022, 6:36 a.m.
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Pre4t7t6y
Heyy guys I'm pretty and am new here😔can u plz add me to your group 0680887218thnx plz¯\_༼ ಥ ‿ ಥ ༽_/¯
Pre4t7t6y
0680887218
Xolani34
Okythnx
Retha
Hey guys I'm new here too pls add me to your group 0677685191
Retha
Hey guys I'm new here too pls add me 0677685191
Buhle_mabontle
Add to?
Gladys
Hi guys I'm new🦋🐼
Gladys
0634417246 pz add me
lebogang
0795876
July 18, 2022, 6:35 a.m.
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Thingo
🤔🙄
100sky
Me and my friend always fight after a minute then we talk of something else 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂me and my best friend is crazy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
July 17, 2022, 8:29 p.m.
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lebogang
moyanumber pls
Pre4t7t6y
That me and my bff u know if she's/he is ur bff for real she will forgive and forget but if she's not off course she will never forget 🥰🥰and some frnd can pretend very well be aware she could use u 🥺🥺🥺
Xolani34
Hawu uhamba ukuluma ngolungisile dizomuxelela By the way Heyy ❤️❤️ am new💖💖💖
Pre4t7t6y
Yhoo wea why this is a group of support and encouragement so if u need a physical help we give u an advice yezwa🥺🥺🥺🥺
Tshedza
I did fight with my friend because when see her other friends they teased me and i started to get upset and changed and when they talk to me i started not to respond and she started to realise his mistake and came to me and 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏beg me to forgive him and i forgived him and now we are BESTA BOMBAS👊👊
July 17, 2022, 12:29 p.m.
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lebogang
3dd add e3d3r
Asanda
That's what happening to me right now but I'm happy for you guys
Fefe
GOOD MORNING ❤❤
July 17, 2022, 7:20 a.m.
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Tshedza
Fefe what is your Surname
Fefe
Ke Sebego Lala😘😘
lebogang
moya number
Good
😍❤️ Springster
July 16, 2022, 6:58 a.m.
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lebogang
moya number💜
Good
I don't like my friend anymore because she loves boys 2222 much 1 day we yelled when we had fight her mom heard us and she said how long this happening than I said maybe a few yrs she became angry than my friend said how could you
July 16, 2022, 6:57 a.m.
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Meerah
I had a fight with my bestie because she didn't like that I got all the boys an she didn't ,not that I want that it really messed me up
Buhle_mabontle
Yah ne💖 abangani abathanda umjolo. Bazomitha🤰🤰one day. Thula ubheke wena🤞🤞
Owethu13.
Yes wena girl..hamba buhle😂😂
Nozipho
Uyangihlekisa buhle😂😂😂😂kodwa u are telling the truth
Entle
Kanjalo nje gal
Meisie
Hi
July 15, 2022, 8:59 p.m.
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Nkateko
Hi
Asheilgh
Hey ☺
lebogang
moya number guys
Pre4t7t6y
Heyy 💜💙💛
Amierh
0790583937
Reatlegile
Hey
Zoë
I don't like my bestie anymore because she likes boys too much and doesn't talk 2 me Alot😶
July 15, 2022, 7:14 p.m.
Valelo
Hello guys in the morning
July 14, 2022, 4:41 a.m.
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Meisie
Yes
lebogang
moya number guys
Pre4t7t6y
Mara guy here's my number 0680887218
Lebondaba02
Heyy mpho I think you should open ur heart and try to fix things with your friend❤👭
July 12, 2022, 8:31 p.m.
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Sksa1234
Yes
Leano
I also had a fight with my bestie just for doing the right thing. Well I reported her for cheating in an exam and she was angry at me. I apologised to her but I still feel like she hasn't forgiven me yet and we don't have connection like we used to before🥺💔
July 12, 2022, 7:02 p.m.
Konka
Hey guys I need help me well I had there was this guy who liked me then I like him too then it happened that the guy did not like me he liked my friend which my friend had a crush on the guy and the guy told my friend that he liked her and it turns out they are dating sometimes they seat together
July 12, 2022, 4:25 p.m.
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Olivier
Ohh sorry grl😔😔
Retha
I think you should talk to your friend that you don't like what is happening
Meisie
Hii
Retha
😔
Tshedza
Sorry 😕
Mageliza
Hi i am in the same situation💔 and i don't knw how to deal with it😪because we are both stubborn even if i try to talk to her it feels like i am speaking alone😏 but i can see that she still sees a frnd in me but our pride is also on,what should i do,should i apologize even if she is never interested or should i let her go???
July 8, 2022, 1:01 p.m.
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Tshedza
Let her go 😜
Katie
I think that is a good idea
Alwande
It's ok to be not ok as said what you have to do is to just find peace and forgive yourself remember that you come first in your life 🥺♥️
June 30, 2022, 6:38 p.m.
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ZEEYAH
Yes I agree because I have gone through it and didn't turn out well but to we are friends so they don't always have to be your best friend they can always still be you friend
Tshedza
I agree
Lelethu
It ís normally to fight with some one close or related to no need to stress your self please take good care of yourself ❤️
June 26, 2022, 10:17 p.m.
Sammy
Yah that true MPO if I was u I was going to forgive my self then stat to talk about how sorry u a oky don't be stressed
June 23, 2022, 11:26 p.m.
Naima
Don't stress it is absolutely normal to fight with your loved ones,💕But try not to make things worse than it already is So please take care of yourself and your relatives don't let the devil come over you or them 💯♥️
June 15, 2022, 2:12 p.m.
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Meisie
Mokjiuhdvb
she_pretty
Hi, I was in the same situation and had a fight with my best friend but soon after that we made up but it doesn't feel the same anymore when we together. I don't trust her as much as I use to. I truly think that our friendship is over and I'm okay with it. If she is not able to sense the awkwardness between us then she doesn't value the friendship.
May 17, 2022, 6:06 p.m.
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Katie
Sorry to hear that 😭