So my mom and I have stayed in separate cities for about 13 years , I'm 17 now I matriculated last year and now I'm taking a gap year and moved to my mom's place . It is extremely hard ,it feels like we don't know each other because I'm so grown now and she missed out on most of my life . And now I've got two baby brothers so now obviously. Most of her attention has to be directed to them which I totally understand. My biggest problem is that we argue all the time , both of us have this fiery personalities and our arguments become ugly . I don't think I totally hate my mom I just feel like there's a lot of healing to be done for both of us . I just want our relationship to be stable because right now I'm picturing my life without her and sadly a part of me feels like I can live without her and that's scary ,I'm not supposed to feel like that . Do you guys think therapy will help or will too many things come out that shouldn't have? Should I just continue this cycle of loving her and then wishing thus year to be over so I can leave and study in another city ?????

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.